The
Undone
Method.
Join a warm community of women releasing overwhelm, resetting their rhythms, and rebuilding homes and lives with calm intention.
Breathe. Reset. Rebuild
Who We Are…
A softer space to care for your life, your home, and the woman you’re becoming.
You don’t need another productivity system, another calendar to chase, or another voice telling you to do more.
You’re craving something gentler. Something grounding. Something that helps you clear the noise, reconnect with what matters, and move forward with intention—not hustle.
The UNDONE Community™ is a calm, supportive membership designed to help you gently release what isn’t serving you, reset your mind and home, and rebuild your life with rhythm, beauty, and truth—one month at a time.
You’re tired of feeling like:
Your home is never quite done and always needs something
You’re juggling too much and losing yourself in the process
You crave peace, structure, nourishment, and support—but without shame or pressure
You want a life that feels meaningful, grounded, and true to who you are
You’re ready to step into a year of clarity, softness, and intention
If you nodded “yes” to even one of these… you belong here.
The undone method is for you if…
each month includes…
A beautifully designed Monthly Reset Kit
Reflection prompts for emotional clarity
Homemaking support + gentle structure
Simple habit building tools
Community connection & encouragement
A guided UNDONE Method focus for your home + life
+ Support to stay grounded, peaceful, and intentional — without perfection pressure
This is a space to breathe. To reset. To come back home to yourself.
choose to live this year differently.
not harder.
Not Busier.
Just more you.
Our Story“This is a place to feel held, seen, and supported.
this isn’t just a membership.
it’s a refuge. a rhythm. a reminder that you don’t have to hold everything alone.
you deserve a space where peace is possible, progress is gentle, and you life feels like it belongs to you again”
Meet the Founder
Lauren Nicholsen is a homemaker, creator, and founder of The Undone Community, a supportive membership for women who want to release overwhelm, reset their rhythms, and rebuild a life that feels peaceful and intentional.
For over a decade, Lauren has welcomed women into her Napa Valley home through YouTube (170K+ subscribers) and Instagram (54K+ followers), sharing cooking, decorating, organizing, and homemaking with warmth and honesty. Over time, she realized women needed more than inspiration. They needed permission to slow down, be honest, and rebuild when life feels overwhelming.
A mother of four and former real estate professional, Lauren created The Undone Method™, a three-phase approach: release what no longer serves you, reset your mind and home, and rebuild with intention and beauty.
Today, The Undone Community brings that method to life through monthly reset kits, reflection prompts, homemaking guidance, and a private space for meaningful connection.
Lauren lives in Napa Valley with her husband Ron, their four children, and a lively mix of dogs, cats, and chickens. Her home is never perfect, and that is exactly the point.
Frequently Asked Questions…
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No. This community starts where you are—messy, overwhelmed, in transition, or craving clarity.
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It’s about your whole life: heart, home, rhythms, wellness, peace, identity, purpose.
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Never. UNDONE is intentionally slow, soft, and human-paced.